Greetings chaps! It’s been a while since my last instalment, and I hope the year has been treating you well, and that you’re all in good health.
Today, we’re talking about something all of you will almost certainly have heard of, and that 8% of men aged 14-49 contract every year – genital herpes.
A rather unpleasant virus, genital herpes is an STI caused by the herpes simplex virus, and it’s not one that discriminates between the genders – both men and women can catch it.
Here is everything you need to know about how to spot it, treat it and manage it.
How do I know if I have it?
Like many STIs, genital herpes likes to make sure you know it’s there! Some of the classic symptoms in men are:
- Blistery sores
- A burning sensation when you pee
- Itching and pain around your genitals
During the initial stages, you may also suffer from flu-like symptoms. Yep, it’s no fun to have herpes!
How is genital herpes diagnosed?
If you suspect you might have herpes, your next move should be going to see your doctor, who can perform a swab test by obtaining a bit of fluid from a sore.
Your doctor will also recommend that you get tested for other STIs including HIV, as they are transmitted in the same manner. It’s totally normal to feel unnerved about this test, but chaps it’s not worth avoiding or running away from – the sooner it’s diagnosed, the sooner it can be managed.
Can I do anything to stop myself from catching genital herpes?
As genital herpes is most easily passed on when you have sex without a condom, it’s a no-brainer that using one will reduce your chances of catching it. But chaps, remember to make sure you’re putting it on properly, as exposed areas of skin will be susceptible otherwise.
There is absolutely no shame in wanting to make sure you’re able to do this correctly and if you’re unsure, YouTube can help, as can a professional such as a doctor or sexual health worker.
What can I do to manage genital herpes if I catch it – the dos and do
Unfortunately, there is no current known cure for genital herpes – all the more reason why a preventative mindset is key when you’re out having fun between the sheets chaps!
Here are a few yeses and nos:
DO
- Keep the affected area clean using normal or saltwater, which will stop blisters from becoming infected.
- Have Vaseline become your best friend, as it will help keep the pain at bay when you visit the little boy’s room for a number 1!
- Wash your hands (which is hopefully second nature by now after the multiple lockdown periods!) each time you visit the bathroom (especially public ones) to avoid an increased chance of infection.
DON’T
- Touch your blisters unless you’re applying Vaseline.
- Have any kind of sexual intercourse until the sores have gone (I know it’s hard chaps, but think of the other people you could infect).
- Wear tight clothing that might otherwise exacerbate your sores.
If you’re still shielding due to Covid-19 or you simply prefer to have a home testing kit, these are available too. Make sure you have a friend with you or a phone call away for afterwards chaps – it’s always good to have support if the news isn’t what you hoped.